Something Real Big In The Works.....
I always end up talking about my relationship life in my posts because my professional life...well I don't need to express much
see and this week I got a second job at a local hospital and I got my professional therapy license. Not to toot my own horn but I am only 25 and I've gained all of this! I'm quite proud of myself...*bowing, bowing, curtsy*.
Okay, enough of that but really this is what I am excited about...I just got a really big offer that I couldn't pass up. Now it won't be a new job but it will give me a great opportunity to voice my opinions Monday thru Friday but I need a format...I have to develop something...This isn't something I sought out it was something that was dropped in my lap...and I'm going to take it...I'll give more details later...
So I got all caught up in the election and forgot to talk about Mexico...It was okay..the cruise ship was kind of bootleg...Carnival was like traveling on a big cafeteria...I was so mad and the food was not what I had expected...I was so mad about the food!!! I was looking forward to a smorgishborg of food and I got a midnight pizza bar only where Pizza Hut had better pizza are you serious? Okay so besides that we went to Key West first and I got 4 Coach bags on a 70% sale out of the Coach Warehouse Store ... OMG!!!! And I only spent $150 on all bags and I'm talking big bags!!! Then we were supposed to be in Mexico for 12 noon the next day but some damn white man fell on the ship and broke his arm so we had to turn around so he could be air lifted back home...We got to Mexico at 4pm and left at 12am..We went shopping there a little bit then we ate...My aunt refused to eat any Mexican food she was so anxious to get back on the ship and eat there...I think because she was fearful of the whole Mexican water thing...but we were in a tourist spot like real tourist they weren't selling anything in pesos which I wanted them to cause 12 pesos = $1...I felt rich with my 2500 pesos in my pocket!!! LOL...We get back on the ship...go to the Halloween Party...I get drunk start talking to my sister-in-law...and this young boy tries to holla and when I say young I mean like 17 years old...so I tell him no R. Kelly over here homeboy...but I explain to my sister-in-law that my brother, local football coach, had to stop his students from trying to holla at me one time when I went to the locker room to get some money cause I was hungry...She gets mad saying my brother doesn't give money out to anyone but he gave me money and that's crazy etc, etc, and she's going to check when we get home...so now I feel uncomfortable because I started an argument between my brother and his wife...then on the last day it rains all day, my mom starts her OCD stuff again...with rushing us off the boat to the airport where we had to wait 2 1/2 hours for the plane...I felt like crap because it felt like I was still moving with the ship even though I was on land...And then finally that night when I get home...my sister-in-law calls me and says when did my husband give you that money...meaning they were arguing then and I said 2 years ago I think cause that's really when it was...her only answer was oh...ok bye. Really? Really?
Next time I'm vacationing with my friends and not my family!!!!
Labels: bullshit, family drama, graduation, stepping my game up, vacation
Don't Get Caught Up In Their Shit
That's right,
31 said that to me. When
31 had his birthday cook out at his mother's house, three of his cousins came, three woman. I know some of his other cousins but not these three woman. I know his other cousins because I throw parties. They come to my parties and so does
31 so I met them.
Well, as I'm
frying chicken in his momma's house, his three mean cousins come in. They hug each other and immediately begin to talk about the other cousins. The actual cousins who were nice to me. They were all like who are you but luckily
31 came in and introduced me. By the way he is still introducing me as his 'friend'. They looked me up and down and continued talking. I didn't involve myself in any of their conversations. A couple of times they asked if I needed anything which I made sure I talked back but other than that I was good. I was polite and said hello and goodbye but I have family members like that myself so I already knew.
That night after we dropped off his Goddaughter we were in the bed talking. He said oh the meanies like you. I thought oh really? He said yeah, they thought you were so polite and nice. The next day I went back over there and they actually held real conversations with me and didn't just talk about me. But things changed later that night when they checked myspace because the cousin they were talking about had already put up the pictures from the party already. That's when they saw the parties I saw and started to call me by nickname and not Cherry's Kid. Tension just felt tight and I was like okay never mind. I thought they were getting cool but it was like, no no no. Oh by the way, they tell me, we like you.
31 has brought girls back that have been like what? But you you're nice and we like. Trust us if we didn't then we would tell you.
Later that night,
31 I were talking and he said. Don't get caught up in their shit. Don't tell anyone the secrets they tell you cause that's what they want. At the end of the day just cause they sit up in the kitchen and talk about people doesn't mean that they won't still fight you cause you opened your mother. I love my cousins but don't get caught up in their shit. I'm not even worried about the statement. I'm more concerned about the meaning behind the statement. What do you mean don't get caught up in their shit. Am I going to see them more often to where I could? Am I going to be around longer? Wow...shocked the hell out me...well, I'm working on my graduation present...hopefully he will have something nice for me!!!!
Labels: 31 now, graduation, his family, relationships
One Thing At A Time Please?
That's how I feel like my life has been right now...It's been so long since I posted, it's ridiculous. It's not like I'm not doing anything. Shit it's like I'm doing so much but doesn't feel like I'm getting anything done. So I've finally gotten a chance to post and I honestly think because I had to take some me time to sit and pamper myself for a couple of seconds that I got the oppoturnity to post. So what's been going on? Everything and nothing at all.
30 is definitely still in the picture. There is no question that he won't be around by the end of summer. Things have been going so well between him and I that I may cut off the other guys that I have been dating.
*Side Bar - Why does that happen? Women get wrapped up in a guy that they are dating, yes definitely dating not a boyfriend and then we cut off all the other men that we are dating too but men don't cut any of the other women off.* On other thought, I won't cut anyone off, I'll just keep things going the way they are until I'm ready to commit to him.
Grad School is definitely over! Yes, I handed in my last finals last week and I got one back, got a B+ on the final paper and an A in the class. The other class and the internship, I haven't heard from yet. Still got a financial hold on my record although I paid the balance it just hasn't been updated yet.
Lastly, work is kicking my assets!!! They want to fire my supervisor. His superiors feel that he is incompetent but the problem is that because they want to fire him puts hell on those underneath him. They double check our work for his mistakes, they constantly call us, and it is just taxing on someone's body. I'm just really beat!!! I'm so beat up mentally from this!!!
Other than all of that.....I'm good!!!! A little sleep deprived and hungry but I'm good. I think I need a beer draw like
Jamielor a day where I think I'm a Superstar like
Jaybeeand
Rashan...or maybe a day where I can just tell my supervisor that he is an idoit like
Divaimplied...But more importantly I think I need those summers off like
Von Kutieboots....I live vicariously thru those items right now until I get a chance to be normal again. Hopefully, after I catch up on work at work, graduate, and maybe get some from
30.... I should be fine....did I mention that it just so happens to be that week...yeah...life is pretty tough now...LOL!!! But I'm hanging in there!!!!!!!!!!
Labels: 30, graduation, need some, school, work
