Thursday, May 31, 2007

I'm BACK!!!!

So I've been gone for almost a year now...okay so my math is bad...so what! Anyway, a lot has changed.... I'm no longer single! That's right... I GOT A MAN.

DRAMATIC PAUSE

THAT I LIVE WITH!!!!!!

So my life has changed. I moved up in the working world, I'm almost done with higher education, and most of all I am cohabitating!

Cohabitating is a whole new interesting thing. You have actually try to work with someone else. Your kind of dirt and mess is not the other person's dirt or mess. And well, that's the problem so far! We are totally different people. He likes socks and shoes everywhere and I like dishes in the sink when I'm sleeping. He freaks out if the AC is not on and I can't stand that cold!

So is it working? Of course it is... I can't go backwards...I'm like used shoes...you can't return them once you've worn them or at least who is nasty enough to? That's the question you have to ask. But the one question people are always asking me is..."When are you guys getting married?"

It's as if cohabitating is so wrong. People do it all the time. This is my theory behind cohabitating... why get married to someone you don't know. You don't know someone when you date them. If you don't go on vacation with them, if you don't live with them, if you don't know their friend & family you do not know that person! If you think marrying someone without living with them is going to work then try it. Try it and call me later! Later after you divorce. Not that I'm wishing that on you! It's just that you must be in a relationship for years and I mean years [10 or more] then you don't know him! All I'm saying is you have to live with someone to learn how to love them....what do you think?