Tempting....Randomness
I am a diaster waiting to happen...The Barber's birthday was this past weekend and we watched the fight at his shop...all his boys, customers, the hairdressers, and myself...Ps. the baby is his ... they had the paternity test ... I haven't had any relations with him we were just hanging out as friends which is cool... the random chick on the side is gone too...maybe because of the baby, by the way that was her car he was driving his car is out of the shop...
Either way, met a great business connect but damn do I want to holla at him ... lol... sexy as hell...eitherway, I made him come to shop...such a diaster but nothing happened no one knew who he was or way I was sitting in the car talking to him... Did anyone bet on he fight...did you loose
Went to the 40/40 after the fight went off with the entire shop staff, the Barber, and some other dudes...It was cool..afterwards I was drunk as hell...he didn't make sure I got home he left his boy, my friend's man, to make sure I got home...which he did but really dude you couldn't make sure I got home safely?
The next day I was sick to my stomach cause I had a salami sandwich when I got home with my drunk ass...sick as hell the next day...still flirting with my business contact...shit still flirting till today with the business contact...He said can't mix business with pleasure but is so leaving the door open for us to do so, so why not tempt the idea?
Starting my second job today...so my first job I'm off cause it's a state holiday but my second job I start today at the hospital...doing clinical social work...so happy with life now...still moving away though once I stack my money correctly...
So sad to hear the follow up to The Coldest Winter Ever is wack!!! Does that mean any movie will also be wack? UPS giving free yoga classes to their employees ... damn I need to be int he line of work for free fitness classes...LOL... I'm a mess...going to work...going to finish flirting with the business connect...ps. Met a detective who is so crute (aka cute)!!!! Baby face guy...mmmmm tempting ... I got to get my love life or my roster together...I'm slipping!!!!
Labels: 2nd job, baby momma drama, barber, business connect, Detective, money
This Shit You Just Can't Make Up
I have the type of life that you just can't make up! No seriously I do!!! This is my life...I'm smart...I'm really smart...I graduated Graduate School with a 3.86 GPA, who does that shit? I don't know? I graduated high school at 17, I learned to read, write, and do math at the age of 4 and I mean like addition not counting numbers!!! I speak a couple of languages, I don't have kids, I live at home only because I'm saving $20k to buy a house, and my credit is pretty damn good; except Vicki Secrets calls sometimes cause they want they money for panties other than that I'm good!!! I take care of myself, I eat right, I keep my hair, nails, and other physical features in tact. I'm well read and I'm aware of both street and book knowledge. And besides all of that I'm cute!!!! I'm really cute, short as all hell but cute!!!
Well, I also have the 14 week curse! That's right I said it, a muthafuckin curse!!! I meet guy, guy tells me I'm all of the above, we date substantially and then the bottom falls out. I find out he has a baby on the way with a girl who has been fucking at least one of his friends and two other people, doesn't know if its his and they did a genetic test but not a paternity test and the chick keeps lying about her due date. I find out that he also has a female friend who he claims is just a friend but has recently kissed and her man is locked up and they spend an awful amount of time together, she drives his car, knows his family, runs personal errands for him, and decorates his house. I find out that there are other woman that he's also dating although I've asked several times if he was dating other women not because I'm being nosey but because I want to gauge how much feelings I should invest myself into it but I get a null and void answer. This is usually what I find at the 14 weeks, then I find myself retreating back to my home and not going out and not really giving my number out because every dude I have met since I broke up with my ex has been this way.
And before you can even say anything, I'm not talking about dudes I meet on the street. I'm talking about College Professors, Cops, Correction Officers, the Occassional Thug, Public Service Employees, Friend of Friend, Airline Worker, Teacher, I mean you name I've dated it...and all of them have the same issues. Are my standards too high? Am I looking for something that just isn't out there? And when I go for the guy that is not attractive to me, the corny looking dude he is so corny I walk all over him. I tell him what to do when to do and he does it and its annoying. I just want to meet my equal... EQUAL is that so hard to ask for? I know stop looking, I'm not these dudes come to me...stop thinking about it...I know I have but damn...I'm so lonely I just want 24 weeks of good dates and not the 14 week curse!!! I'm back to square one again...and yes all of those problems happen to be those of the current 14 weeker....he owns a retail shop!
Labels: 14 week curse, baby momma drama, barber, who is she
