I Don't Give a F...
Listening to Gwen Stefani - LuxuriousI realized this weekend that I like older guys, and how did come about you ask? Well, I had two seemingly weird dates this weekend. One was a set-up and the other...well he intrigues me so I go after him when I want him.
One: My friend T wanted to go and see this guy she met at a club in NYC on Friday night after we had been at the bar for the past couple of hours drinking. Not heavy drinking but we were drinking. I think I had two cranberry and hennies, she had two white wines, and we ate a lot of food. For those outside of the Tri-state area, you can buy food (good food at that) from bars. Anyway, she calls him and sets it up. She says, you know I don't want to come out there by myself so my girl is going to drive you should have one of your boys around. So we get out there (side bar - we're in china town right by the Manhattan Bridge and you can't make a left turn on Bowery from Canal Street. Well, we needed to go on Bowery so the light turned green, I pulled into the mid section and paused looked around for cops and then took it in front of a cab! No no ticket or accident isn't that amazing?) Anyway, the guy I met was so nice he was 34 with a 13 y/o son and he was (not the son the father) was cute. We had fun just cracking jokes and poking fun at each other. He asked if I always interrogated people and I said yes....(side bar - it's the truth ask anyone who has talked to me in real life or on the phone it's just me) Mostly, I don't give a fu*k about what people think of me I ask whatever is on my mind, obviously I'm asking because I really do want to know. I ask about kids, were their kids a mistake or planned, about relationships, jumpoffs, mistakes in life, prison sentences you name it I will ask it!!! Long story short, we exchanged numbers, talked briefly on Saturday, and that was that...
Second night out...I went to a wonderful housewarming...Congrats Tish!!! Anyway, after that I dropped off L (she's having my God Daughter), then J and I went down to the bar in the hood. When I say the hood I mean the HOOD!!! Anyway, can't give out too much but he is so standoffish, quiet, sarcastic, and mean and I love it. What's more important is that I know how to stand up to him. How do I know? He told me that! He said he likes the fact that when he says something to me it doesn't make me run it makes me stand up to him. He's nothing to me he's trying to be so hard but in reality he's soft as all hell to me... *laughing*
Anyway what I pose to you is this question... Why do older guys like younger girls? And why do younger girls always seem to intrigue older men, they seem mystified in our presence or am I just being narcissistic?
posted by cherry's kid @ 10:32 PM
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